tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16507504927639134132024-03-13T09:43:55.394-05:00The White HouseThe Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.comBlogger97125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-9336243618642190652013-03-01T21:25:00.000-06:002013-03-01T17:31:27.305-06:001 year laterWell, I'm pretty bad at blogging now. Its been over a year. I am giving up facebook for Lent. Today is Ash Wednesday at 1pm (when I post this, its actually a couple weeks into lent now!) and I already had to get on it once (it was a legitimate reason, <span style="font-size: xx-small;">except I could have done it yesterday but forgot</span> And I didn't check the 76 notifications I had). Facebook must think I have died, they send me an email every few days saying I have pending notifications. I'm going to be giving up message boards too because it would be too easy for me to replace facebook with that.<br />
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I was a facebook addict, I don't even have a smartphone but I would check it constantly throughout the day. At our old house, we had a computer in the kitchen so it was convenient to stop by when I was doing something else, oh and what do you know - 20 minutes goes by and I have done nothing. Since we moved here I have limited myself to facebook only when I'm nursing the kids to sleep which has worked pretty well, but I'm excited about the break and praying to be more focused on the Lord. <br />
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Oh right, we moved to Alaska! In January. Its been good so far though. Its hard to get out with 2 little ones when its cold & snowy but I'll have to get used to it. The sun is out today (only happens every couple days lately) so we'll have to get our vitamin d! <br />
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We live in an 1100 sq ft apartment. Our last house was somewhere around 1600 or 1800 and two levels which I hated, we basically lived on the main level and only went upstairs to sleep. Its so nice having a smaller place, we had to get rid of a LOT of stuff though, I can neither confirm nor deny whether we had an excess of our 9000 lb limit. I love getting rid of things, decluttering, it makes me really happy. Happier than buying things. Not to mention, we will save a bunch of money vs if we had lived on base. One big downside: no washer/dryer. There is a coin-operated one in the garage but its half the size of a normal washing machine and I was told the dryer sucks so... we wash in the tub. Its mostly not as bad as it sounds. Also no yard, but there is a park half a block away. Its actually a "four-plex" not an apartment. There are only 3 other units. And we have super cool neighbors, all of them have kids (well one is a single guy but he's deployed right now) and they are really friendly and I'm feeling really blessed by it. <br />
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I got my nose pierced this past year. I had wanted it for a while and I love it! I also got my lip pierced... twice. Its called <a href="http://erifekili.tumblr.com/image/5160045324">spiderbites.</a> I went with my super awesome friend who got the same thing done (who also has 2 kids and I miss her so much) right before we moved. Some days I love them and other days I think I might take them out. Especially if I get hit in the lip by one of my children... it happens more often than you realize. <br />
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We have been gluten free for the past year. I know, how many more people are going to jump on the bandwagon and claim "intolerance"?! This gal so, shut your face. It started because of Faith's eczema, that cleared right up and turns out her PICA (eating paper mostly) was related too. She also becomes irrational and hyperactive (or exhausted, it varies) if she has it. And has potty accidents. She weighed 25lbs when I took us off gluten (she was 2.75 yr old) and she now weighs 32lbs. She weighed 19.5 lbs at 7 months old. So she gained more in a year than she had in the previous 2 years combined. I am noticing more that when I am exposed I become so angry and impatient and exhausted. I cannot wake up in the morning I just lay around for hours before I really wake up and think "so THIS is why people drink coffee!". I hate to tell you all this, but going GF is way easier than feeling like that every morning! We keep getting glutened on accident lately... Mike isn't GF and I kissed him and I think got glutened because he had eaten cookie dough ice cream. So Faith was glutened via the milkies. And at Church, I only take communion under the wine form now because we started having reactions to that too. <br />
Its weird that this is where we are now, when we first started GF I wouldn't really worry much about cross-contamination or "well I'm really hungry and we're out running errands so lets get some pizza and gouge ourselves on gluten for a couple days". It also took me A LONG time to realize all of the symptoms she was having as a result of gluten and how it was all connected. People always ask me if she is Celiac, as if that makes it more real. We didn't get her tested before we took her off gluten and you're supposed to be eating gluten for a while before being tested and I'm not putting us through that just so I can have a diagnoses for something I already know the solution to.<br />
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Faith is still nursing. She is 3.5. (that is almost 4, I can't believe it! she is so big) Its only once a day, or some days not even once. Ok ok and to go to sleep and several times at night, I really only have a vague idea of how often at night. lol I was *this* close to nightweaning her until I gave it a half assed attempt and realized it would be hard and possibly make my period come back, so really no one wins in that situation. lol I'll just wait a while longer and maybe she'll night wean herself, that happens right?<br />
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*confession* I am super dedicated to homeschooling, but at least once a week I google preschools because *I* think it looks like fun. (esp the 600/month for 2 days a week waldorf school haha) <br />
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We also have a fantastic Catholic Church here! Perpetual Adoration, a weekly children's rosary, no nursery so all the kids are making noise in church, latin mass once a week, and a moms group! Its lovely! <br />
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Titus just started walking! He is 14 months. He is trying to talk too. I don't know what else to say about a 1 year old.... so, sorry Titus. The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-36859231030394962272012-01-19T15:35:00.000-06:002012-01-25T15:02:28.346-06:00Titus Augustinewarning: birth story and all things that go with it, but its not too gory, in my opinion. :)<br />
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Christmas morning we went to mass with my sister and mom. Two nights before I had mild cx 3-5 min apart, but then they quit when I went to sleep. My due date was the 29th and I was definitely expecting to be a few days "late" since Faith was 9 days late. We came home and went for a walk and Mike put pressure on one of the labor induction pressure points on my ankle for like 5 seconds, so I'm sure thats why I went into labor. haha. I started feeling light crampy contractions around 5 when I was helping my mom make dinner. I timed them around 4 minutes apart for a few hours. They started feeling more uncomfortable and I decided to have our doula come over since I knew it would take her a while. She came over close to 10 with our photographer (I feel so fancy! We didn't have any pictures from when Faith was born and it made me sad, so we hired a photographer, who also happened to be a doula/student midwife). The base recently changed its rules for getting on base. It used to be anyone could get on with a drivers license, but now they have to do a background check and get a pass and someone has to go down to the gate to sponsor them in. its crazy ridiculous! So, Mike went down to the gate to get them on. <br />
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I was having some... uh, intestinal upsets during this whole thing. not pleasant at all. Then I started feeling nauseous after a contraction. The contractions varied in intensity, it would be a really strong one, then a mild one, then a really strong one again. Michael had brought home a TENS unit from work, which was AMAZING on my low back. I kept it on from like 11ish until Titus was born at 4am, minus the little while I was in the tub. I'm actually not sure its even recommended to leave it on that long. lol. I actually got out of the tub at the hospital because I wanted the tens unit back on and it felt better than the tub did. lol anyway, back to being at home. I layed on the yoga ball for a long time, which helped, but then my lower back was getting sore, so I just sat for a while. Then I drank some kefir, then I threw up twice. I layed/slept/nursed Faith on the couch for about an hour. Then I felt like I should change positions to speed things up. So I sat/layed on the ball some more. I started feeling a lot more pressure and felt like the baby was really low. <br />
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Faith fell asleep around 1 and we decided to go to the hospital. I had been debating about what to do with Faith, especially if it was the middle of the night because she really freaks if I'm not here when she wakes up, even if Mike is here. So the plan was she would come too, but I decided since she had just fallen asleep that she would stay here and my mom could bring her if she flipped out. The drive was NOT fun. It wasn't bad except for turns + contraction. yowza. I got into triage close to 2am and was 8cm with bulging bag of waters. Then they put us in our room and I got in the tub. The back pain was much much worse, so I only stayed in the tub for 30 minutes then got the tens unit back on. My ob showed up around then. I layed down in bed for a while (which I actually have no memory of). This labor was so weird to me, looking back. I remember in our bradley class that we took before Faith was born, they talked about laying on your side during labor and I thought that was crazy... who just wants to lay there during labor? But I totally did this time. I could have been hooked up to the EFM the whole time and would have been fine, I just wanted to lay down. lol. I started feeling a lot of pressure and sort of pushy. I did hands and knees and kneeling, it did not feel good. pushing didn't help with the pressure. I made quite a bit of progress though. I could feel his head with my fingertips, it was really cool! I also started feeling a burning when his head was still an inch or so in... really weird because I didn't feel anything until Faith's head was crowning.<br />
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They noticed the baby (I'm not sure if I should refer to him as "the baby" since we didn't know or as a him/Titus since he is born and we now know what sex he is. lol) was having heart rate decelerations after the contraction was over... so I used some oxygen for a few contractions which I don't remember it helping. My OB asked if he could break my water to speed things up bec of the decels. sure. That was painful mid-contraction. Then I changed positions to sitting up/squatting, which helped with his heartrate(but apparently decels like that are usually normal as long as they recover b/t). But he really moved back up when I changed positions which was really discouraging, but I only pushed for 45min total before he was born. Thats a lot better than the 3 hours with Faith! I felt really out of control when I was pushing and the intensity was insane. It really felt much more painful than with Faith. I'm not sure if its because he had a nuchal hand (hand up by his face) or because I didn't do any preparing myself mentally like I had last time. Anyway, Michael got to catch him which was really really really awesome, I'm glad we decided to do that this time. I put him right onto my chest and we nursed and someone asked what the sex was because I had forgotten to check - a BOY! I couldn't believe it. The whole pregnancy I felt like it was a boy but basically thought no way and anticipated it being a girl. Michael's face was so ecstatic when I announced it. It was sooo awesome waiting until birth day to find out the sex, totally worth it (though I had no desire to find out during the pregnancy, so it wasnt really "difficult"). I think I will be doing it that way with future pregnancies, it just made the labor that much more exciting. I kept saying/thinking "I get to find out if its a boy or girl!!" They were concerned about his breathing and thought he might need oxygen, but he was fine. They left his cord for 5-7 min according to our doula, and only cut it because they thought they needed to take him to the warmer for oxygen, but that never happened so... yeah. Which, looking back, if he was having possible breathing trouble you should probably leave him attached to his backup oxygen source, but this is the hospital ;)<br />
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Things I wasn't happy about: I said no pulling/maneuvering the head before the shoulders are out and there was definite maneuvering. My doc stuck cord clamps on the very edge of the cord (not actually clamping off the vessels) and just let them hang there after he was born. it felt like he was pulling on the cord, WTH STOP and he took the clamps off then. I'm thinking it was either to get a "gentle" traction on the cord even though I said no traction or (according to the web) that is how they can tell when the placenta separates bec the cord will lengthen and if you stick the clamps on there you can see it lengthening. There was suggestion of manually removing clots from my uterus for no good reason... what?! why would you suggest such a thing!! of course I'm not agreeing to that are you CRAZY!? So I agreed to the damn uterine massage.<br />
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I had a 2nd degree tear again (prob from the nuchal hand). I think I did something to my tailbone, because it was really painful to sit for any length of time for the first week. Overall I'm really pleased with our hospital experience... other than the above it was perfect. No one even asked to weigh him for an hour, no one asked to bathe him, I don't think he even wore clothes for the first few hours. We told them we wanted to leave as soon as possible and they basically pushed us out the door. They started getting us all our discharge stuff when he was just a few hours old. Faith came with my mom and sister around 10am and was sooo happy to see me. Apparently she had woken up right around the time he was born, and cried but fell back to sleep on our bed, which she has only done twice in her entire life (fallen asleep by herself that is). We ended up leaving (not without a stern speech from a nazi pediatrician about refusing the vitamin K injection) when he was 9 hours old, making our total stay barely 12 hours. We had to leave "against medical advice" because they won't discharge the newborn before 24 hours, but no one acted like it was a big deal. <br />
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He was 7lbs 6 oz and 20.5 inches long, born at 4:12am. 14" head, 13" chest (or maybe it was 13 and 12... can't remember. definitely an inch smaller, Faith's chest was 1/2" bigger than her head). He had some jaundice. He basically sleeps all the time, even still at 3 weeks. We started doing EC at 1 week old, just during diaper changes/if its been a while and he's still dry. The kid pees like crazy though, I seriously change him at least 15x a day. Oh and his name: Titus... from the New Testament. apparently there was also an awful roman emperor named Titus who killed a lot of Jews... I learned this when someone at the hospital on our way out asked us what his name was and just said "oh no" and walked away. such a good feeling! lol We have liked the name for such a long time I didn't even think to do a google search. And Augustine, like the totally awesome Saint (pronounced with a short i sound). So far his only nickname is Mr. Titus. Michael kept calling him a her/she for at least the first week. He also called Faith, Claire (his youngest sisters name) for a long time after she was born. lol he is funny. My super awesome friends (mostly from our local babywearing group) brought us meals for 2 weeks, then Michael's mom came last week and cooked all our meals so I have only cooked us one meal so far! It has been such a huge blessing!<br />
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Updated with pictures by our <a href="http://www.bluecolumbinephotography.com/" target="_blank">birth photographer</a>. Also, as you can see in these photos I'm totally not the ecstatic woman who just had a baby. lol I'm smiling in like none of them, because well I just gave birth and was just tired and glad it was overThe Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-50266569753743716082011-12-16T00:42:00.005-06:002011-12-16T00:42:58.918-06:0038 week updateWell, I haven't blogged in a while. So here is an update in bullet form.<br />
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<li>I'm 38 weeks. Feels like baby has dropped, ouch my pubic bone and lots of nerve irritation. I keep feeling like this baby will be early, but I'm trying not to get my hopes up. Faith was 9 days late though and I know babies come when they are ready :)</li>
<li>Faith is 2 and a half. And so much fun. I really really like this stage. Its so easy when they really understand you. She is still nursing and nursing at night and sleeping in our bed. And I wear her on my back to get her to go to sleep. Its a sight to see, let me tell you. But seriously, the "toddler-wearing" is the best thing ever. She is around 26lbs so definitely not a heavy 2.5 yr old. She falls asleep in minutes!</li>
<li>Lately she is totally uninterested in me reading books to her most days and wants to "read" them herself. it frustrates me. She knows colors and animals, but not interested in shapes or counting past 3. hehe. </li>
<li>She understands there is a baby in my belly and will say "baby moving!" if she sees/feels it moving. But I'm not sure how much she understands that the baby will be staying with us forever. lol </li>
<li>She says her name "beef". </li>
</ul>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-2969538071022022392011-11-03T01:37:00.000-05:002011-11-03T01:37:33.472-05:00Birth PlanThought I'd put this here for opinions and safe keeping... As you can see I'm really not concerned about treatment during 1st stage... (in fact I may leave all of that out because its just stuff I can say no to in the moment) mainly just 2nd and 3rd since that was when I had issues with Faith's birth (shoulder dystocia and hemorrhage). I think I'll hand this to my doc tomorrow and say "So, how early can we schedule the induction?" pahahahah. With Faith's birth plan, I made it kind of humorous and titled it "Beth and Mike's Birth Decree", ya know, to change it up for the nurses who read these things all day long. I think this time I'll call it my "List of Demands" ;-)<br />
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I do not consent to oxygen, IV medication, or a saline lock ‘just in case’</div>
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<br /></div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-5955897124345852582011-09-09T15:30:00.003-05:002011-09-09T16:55:11.879-05:00UpdateJust a boring update, because I feel guilty when I don't update for months at a time. :)<div><br /></div><div>We were going to be moving to NJ in March, but looks like that isn't happening now. I was pretty disappointed at first, but it would have been really hard to move across the country with a 2 month old and 2 year old. Plus I have lots of super awesome friends here that I would miss a lot, even though now I won't be able to get raw milk 45 min away for $5/gallon. boo!</div><div><br /></div><div>"New baby" is 24 weeks now :) cooking right along! We aren't finding out the gender... and not doing any u/s at all unless medically indicated. I have a super awesome doctor that has been supportive of me declining every test he has offered so, thats been nice. I'm serious, he is crunchier than the midwife I had when Faith was born. Who would have thought!? </div><div>Starting to really feel pregnant now... feeling lots of movements and I've been having braxton hicks since 9 or 10 weeks! jeez! Its also getting harder to move and roll over in bed. We haven't decided officially on names, but pretty sure it will be MaryGrace if its a girl, I've really liked that name for a long time, even before we were Catholic (I know, I know, could we pick a more Catholic name? lol) and now its perfect, and we found out that Mary and Grace are both family names on Michael's side! Not sure on a boy's name though... we still have a couple favorites. No middle names yet either.</div><div><br /></div><div>Faith is almost 28 months. I really really like this stage she's at. Way better than 1 was! She can understand and say so much, and she can help! She really responds well when she is upset if I give her a time frame like "We can't watch veggie tales right now, we can watch it after you take a nap" and she says "alright". Or "We can't go to the park now, we can go to the park tomorrow"... "ok". She loves to point out sheshus (Jesus) and Mary (sometimes loudly) when we go to Church, she loves to listen to and play "meek" (music), and says things like she's a little italian "help a me"... "don't touch a me". She really loves playing with other kids "tids". And loves giving hugs and holding my hand when we walk - its the sweetest thing! </div><div><br /></div><div>We're working on potty "learning", right now its potty bribery - don't judge me. Several months ago she started refusing the potty all together (except poop - she always tells me she needs to poop! Thank goodness!!), even if she needed to pee so after a few months of her being completely in diapers (we did EC from the beginning so she has been going on the potty her whole life) and my potty offers always being met with "NO!"- I'm giving chocolate chips. If it doesn't work, fine, but if it does - yay for not having 2 babies in diapers!</div><div>She is still nursing quite a bit, which is a little discouraging bec I have colostrum now and I was hoping she would wean on her own when I had no milk... but doesn't look like that will be happening. We went on a trip for a friends wedding and she was barely nursing other than nap/bedtime, but now that we're back home she wants to a lot more often (probably from boredom). I'm torn on the whole tandem nursing thing and don't know how I feel/will feel about it. I'm just keeping an open mind right now and seeing how things go. I just know we need to really work on night weaning because I am not down for nursing 2 all night long! I've already weaned her off her habit of twiddling the other side.... numerous times! "I touch o'dide!" (I touch other side - lol) I just forget she isn't supposed to be doing it sometimes. I'd also like to get her falling asleep by herself for naps/bedtimes, but I'm not too optimistic. And honestly, if its between a long bedtime/nap routine or nursing for a few minutes, I'll take nursing... even if I do have another baby to nurse too, because I'm lazy ;-)</div><div><br /></div><div>hmmm maybe pictures sometime this week. </div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-23347327559866450722011-06-10T19:23:00.004-05:002011-06-28T23:14:52.280-05:00How my children will be 2.5 years apart by doing nothingI feel like I need to make a disclaimer - I'm in no way, shape, or form saying you must do this to be a good mother, Christian, what have you. I'm posting this because I think its amazing and a lot of people are unaware that its even possible (or that by just breastfeeding you can't get pregnant). I also feel like some may think we purposely spaced our babies far apart, but we basically had nothing to do with it. ;-) <div><br /></div><div>So, if you have any desire to not use contraception (and I advise against it) this is an awesome, completely God-designed way to space your babies. <div><br /></div><div>So, Faith and new baby will be 2.5 years apart. Spaced only by breastfeeding. God is amazing and designed our bodies so perfectly :). I will explain...<div><br /></div><div>Prolactin is a hormone produced during breastfeeding, it also suppresses ovulation. The production of this hormone is affected by frequency of suckling, proximity to your baby, and being well rested. So, when someone mothers in a "primal" way, typical of "attachment parenting", using only what God gave them - they will have an absence of ovulation for 14 months on average. God didn't send our newborns with pacifiers, formula, bottles, cribs, infant car seats used outside of the car (I know all of these things can have there place or are needed in certain families and situations). Anyway, surprise - you don't NEED any of it! If you would like natural spacing between your children this is a sort of "checklist", I'll give reasons for each being necessary. </div></div><div><ol><li>No bottles, pacifiers, formula - obviously this would affect prolactin levels. All suckling is to be done at the breast. Pumping does not have the same effect. I have a friend who just does not understand that pacifiers have an impact, but breastfeeding is so much more than nourishment, its comfort too (which is when the pacifier comes in for many moms)</li><li>Co-sleeping. This encourages nighttime feedings and prolactin levels are said to be highest/most affected during the night. Also just being close to your baby raises levels! So if you decide to nightwean your 2 month old, expect your cycle to return quickly! And, most babies sleep better when they are near mom anyway. This also allows mom more sleep since she doesn't have to wake up for night feedings... YAY!</li><li>Baby sets schedule. No schedules for nursing, baby determines length and time of feeding. I think this one is pretty obvious - a lot less nursing if you only nurse every 3 hours for 20 minutes. What amazes me most is that God made it so that the most common sense, easiest, simplest way is what will space your babies apart. You don't need a book to tell you when the next feeding will be. I LOVE simplicity and not having to think and, postponed fertility = BONUS! :)</li><li>No solids before 6 months. And slowly introduce them after that. I've read that the gut sometimes doesn't fully close until 8 months. And no medical association recommends solids at 4-6 months anymore for breastfed babies, they all say 6 months. And the total intake remains the same, so if they eat 1 oz of food, that is replacing 1 oz of breastmilk. Solids should only be for fun for the first year - you don't need to feed your baby 3 meals a day of solids. </li><li>no separation/delaying feedings. I understand sometimes moms have to work, and unless they have a situation where they can bring their baby with them - this wouldn't work. It really is easy to bring baby with you wherever you're going though, throw them in a sling/baby carrier and you're good to go!</li><li>Nap. Taking a daily nap with your baby. The book "Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing" says this could be a big factor in whether or not you experience delayed fertility. I think it says a nap of about 30 minutes. Honestly, I hate this one. I hardly ever took a nap with Faith, but I still held her and sat on the couch with the laptop for the majority of her naps until she was almost 1. I felt completely rested because I would sleep 10 solid hours every night :). Anyway, if you want more info on why napping affects you, you can buy the book used for pretty cheap, she goes into a lot of detail on how important the nap is for some women, but I'm a rebel ;-) haha. Also, the other areas I listed were just common sense for us, we were doing it anyway before I knew it would delay fertility, maybe this one would be easier if we lived in a culture where "siestas" are the norm. I can definitely see this one being difficult if you have a lot of kids already. </li><li>Comfort Nurse. Nutrition is only part of nursing - comfort is such a huge part, letting your baby continue to suckle after its asleep, allowing them to nurse when they are upset but not necessarily hungry, nursing to sleep, nursing in the middle of the night (this is also for nutrition for most babies for a long long time). In essence - the dreaded "human pacifier". *gasp* could there be anything worse?! (sense the sarcasm?)</li></ol><div>Now, I need to say that there is a small percentage that will get there cycles back before 6 months no matter what. There are also women who get such a long break that they have to completely wean to get pregnant. But average is 14 months - I got 17 months (probably due to the amount Faith nurses at night and her not eating much food) and it took another 6 months after that due to my luteal phase issues (which also could have been attributed to breastfeeding). One of my friends was concerned and thought something was wrong with me since I hadn't gotten my period back, but we weren't meant to have years and years of periods - its only recent generations where that has been the norm, since women have stopped having large families. My sister's doctor even told her that its not good for your body to have so many periods (though that was to convince her to take birth control pills for health issues since they will eventually stop/slow your periods. I'm pretty sure its better to have years of periods than to take chemicals & hormones for years to stop them lol).</div></div><div><br /></div><div>I also think its quite funny that the opponents to mothering this way, call their way "God's Way". Really? Why? God wanted us to use clocks and schedules and separate sleeping rooms and be afraid of holding our babies too much? hmm it doesn't say that in the Bible, so should we not assume whatever is most natural is how God designed it to work best? and funny that it works out that way too (in regards to fertility, milk production, infant growth, attachment, etc). I just can't imagine Mary saying "well, baby Jesus, its not yet 6 according to the sun dial. Its still your naptime, no milkies for you.". I don't know... just doesn't sound like her to me. Or can you imagine Jesus not wanting to spoil the children by holding them too much? Why do we use the phrase "spoiling/spoiled" for children anyway?? Food spoils when its left alone, forgotten, and untouched. :(</div><div><br /></div><div><a href="http://www.nfpandmore.org/nfpresearch.shtml">Here is a lot more info if anyone is interested. </a></div></div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-11711958735913805702011-05-16T16:14:00.002-05:002011-05-16T17:25:41.412-05:00Hospital vs. HomebirthI CAN NOT make a decision. So someone tell me what you think I should do because I'm completely unreliable. Mike is leaving the decision up to me, but I know he hopes I'll pick hospital again (he really liked the food and it being free)<div><br /></div><div>homebirth: I found a good midwife here that would only be $1200 (which is half her normal fee) if I have prenatals up until 28 weeks at the base hospital (yuck). I'm not sure how comfortable I feel about having a homebirth, I know midwives are trained to handle all sorts of "variations of normal" and carry oxygen and know CPR and have things for hemorrhage. and Faith had shoulder dystocia and that scares the crap out of me, because thats like 5 minutes or your baby dies or has severe brain damage (granted it would probably be handled in a better way than it was in the hospital). We are also 25 minutes from the hospital (driving speed limit). Also not keen on having prenatals on base for that long, having to walk around sick people, nurses being mad at me for declining flu shot, tests, etc. They also can't handle ANYTHING there, they thought I could be dehydrated when I had morning sickness with Faith so I had to drive 45 min to the Army hospital just to pee in a cup, them to tell me I'm fine and they gave me a script for anti-nauseau meds. stupid. Just generally not sure if I even WANT a homebirth, I feel like I *should* want it, and that I'm "uneducated" (as some might say...) for not wanting one. </div><div><br /></div><div>The other thing that turns me off to homebirth is the hostility towards hospital birth I feel from some people in the HB community, many times its warranted but other times its just ignorance! for instance I interviewed a midwife and she was shocked that I didn't receive an episiotomy, epidural or pitocin... I don't know it seemed kind of easy to avoid those things but maybe thats just because I went in fully educated, prepared and carefully chose my care provider. And I just read on the internet, someone said that if you care about what happens to your baby after birth then you should choose homebirth because you can't decline hep b, vit k or eye ointment in the hospital. ummm yes you can! ugh, now that is ignorant. You might have to fight for it (I didn't have to), but you can decline them. </div><div><br /></div><div>OB at hospital: I would use a CNM again but their are none anymore at the hospital Faith was born at. :( So I found this awesome sounding OB, his website mentions honoring birth plans, lowering c-section risks, and supporting natural birth. Just general awesomeness to read on an OB website. And he's in a solo-practice, meaning he will deliver your baby not whoever is on call. I interviewed him and one of the first things he says, after I told him there aren't any CNMs anymore at the specific hospital he says "I can be a midwife!" and went on to say how I could have a doula, Faith can stay the night in the hospital with us if we want, he has never routinely done episiotomies (the last one he did the woman requested it!) and couldn't even give me a statistic for the rate, his c-section rate is 15-18% but he is not happy with it being that high, but because women demand its hard to bring it down. I don't have to have the glucose tolerance test if I don't have any other symptoms/risk factors, don't have to have antibiotics during labor if I'm gbs+, he prefers delayed cord clamping, was totally supportive of birthing in any position.. he said "How do I know what's comfortable?" hahaha. He will deliver breech and twins vaginally, I asked him how often he sees moms deliver without pain meds or augmentation like pitocin he said "all the time, just this morning in fact!" Honestly he seemed more open-minded than the midwife I planned on using at the hospital. He said "I don't know what the right answer is, I just give you the information so you can make your own informed decision". Buuuuutttt, I feel like he could just be answering all my questions right, putting on a show, ya know. I'd hope not, but I can't help but think that - I'm a total skeptic. He also said I could probably birth in the tub (though he didn't act super confident in his answer), which i know is against hospital policy and I'm pretty sure that wouldn't happen, so I don't know if he just doesn't know what he's talking about w/regards to the waterbirth thing or if he's just trying to please me. And its a man and that is kind of weird to me. </div><div><br /></div><div>There is one CNM that delivers at a different hospital, I've heard they aren't as "baby friendly" and that the hospital Faith was born at is the best in town to give birth at... so, idk. I've heard really good things about the CNM though, haven't interviewed her yet. It's slightly further away and a friend told me she would be out of town a week before my due date, so, I really don't know. I know I should just interview her though, SO tired of interviews though! </div><div><br /></div><div>If I went the hospital route again, I would have a doula and a birth photographer this time because I'm so disappointed that I have no pictures from Faith's birth. I didn't have a doula for Faith's birth but luckily my MW ended up being there the entire labor and never left my side so she was an awesome doula, but I feel like with an OB they aren't necessarily going to be there the whole labor and I feel like I'll need extra back up to advocate for me. But if we did homebirth I wouldn't need a doula but I wouldn't be able to afford the photographer or anything else like a chiropractor!</div><div><br /></div><div>seriously sometimes I wish I didn't know or think so much.</div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-9847466803298935662011-04-19T16:41:00.005-05:002011-05-08T17:03:27.929-05:00PREGNANT!!!I'm so so so so so excited! After 6 months of trying and having luteal phases of 6-7 days, 2 months of taking a b-complex, and 1 month of Vitex - I'm pregnant! As I write this, I'm 3weeks and 5 days. lol its so early! I won't be posting this until at least 6 weeks because we will be telling my family first when we go visit in a few weeks. I took a test yesterday and there was a very very very very faint line, so faint I thought for sure I was imagining it. Then I took a more sensitive test this morning and sure enough, definitely two lines! Michael had no idea, I mean he knew we were trying to get pregnant but he didn't think it was even possible based on the last 6 months, so today when I put Faith in the t-shirt *I* wore when my little sister was born that says "I'm the big sister" and told her "go show dada" he was confused and all "why would you put her in that? we can't have a baby, you're barren" uh, no honey... I'm pregnant! AHH YAY, I just can't believe it! Faith and baby brother/sister will be 32 months apart (2 years and 7 months). I'm due on/around Dec. 29. I'm SO excited to pick out names - its my favorite! I wonder how much morning sickness I'll have this time - I had it so awful last time, but I think that was due to the progesterone cream... so we'll see. I'm planning on doing some freezer cooking in the next week or two for a ton of meals just in case I'm incapacitated - last time it was ramen and boxed quick meals, I definitely want to avoid that this time around. hmmm and I need to get some prenatals.<div><br /></div><div>The timing is crazy - when I found out I was pregnant with Faith we went to visit my parents around the same time, early in the pregnancy, and were able to tell them in person, like this time! And we just went to the zoo the other day, the last time we went to the local zoo was when I had just found out I was preg with Faith! So I realized that at the zoo and thought I must be pregnant this time!</div><div><br /></div><div>Update: I'm 6 weeks now... still no morning sickness! I'm a little queasy in the morning but after I eat its ok. The past few days its been kind of painful when Faith latches on, but only lasts a few seconds. I also found the most amazing OB, and might interview a CNM when we get home too. The CNM that delivered Faith isn't delivering babies anymore and neither is the other CNM in her office that I was going to use. Such a good thing because I wouldn't have found this amazing OB and I think he's better :)</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-4320128163629795482011-04-11T16:01:00.005-05:002011-04-11T16:29:49.665-05:00Raw Milk!<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ZL6hFWDKNDU/TaNtJkDGiUI/AAAAAAAAAPw/PuL-2p2vdkE/s1600/IMG_1057.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ZL6hFWDKNDU/TaNtJkDGiUI/AAAAAAAAAPw/PuL-2p2vdkE/s320/IMG_1057.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594435173187225922" /></a><br />I get to pick up my first gallon of raw milk this week! I've been on the wait list for 2 months. I'm so excited to make butter & yogurt & cheese! I don't know how long we will keep it up for, I guess it depends how much we like it. I've been buying low temp pasteurized/nonhomogenized organic milk for $7/gallon (did you know almost all organic milk is ultra-pasteurized, thats worse than they do for non-organic! I've heard it called "ultra-dead" lol), but there is almost no cream AND it starts tasting weird 4 days after you open it so we end up throwing part of it out some weeks. the raw milk is $11/gallon (if I didn't have to pay for a delivery charge it would be less than $9)... ugh! it kills me!<div><br /></div><div><div style="text-align: center;">speaking of milk...</div><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wrBI5qcpXck/TaNwV2H50SI/AAAAAAAAAP4/ioQQ0egHDE8/s1600/IMG_1033.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px; " src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wrBI5qcpXck/TaNwV2H50SI/AAAAAAAAAP4/ioQQ0egHDE8/s320/IMG_1033.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594438682732515618" /></a></div><div>I was pumping for about 5 weeks for a friend that adopted a baby, I've stopped now because pumping and nursing while trying to get pregnant doesn't help, plus that 4oz bottle was just an amazing day it was usually more like 2 oz max. But this organization is amazing : <a href="http://www.facebook.com/hm4hb">Human Milk for Human Babies</a> if you have extra breastmilk, you should really consider finding your local group and donating to a mom unable to breastfeed! </div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-32547354545032089722011-04-10T15:45:00.003-05:002011-04-10T16:30:27.959-05:00Official<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Xt-4UHuNUh8/TaIZ6wO4vhI/AAAAAAAAAPQ/hSlQ5HHxF4o/s1600/IMG_1436.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Xt-4UHuNUh8/TaIZ6wO4vhI/AAAAAAAAAPQ/hSlQ5HHxF4o/s320/IMG_1436.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594062184318025234" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Yay! As of today... I know I said on pentecost, but it got moved up and they gave us like 2 weeks notice. typical. So I was confirmed and had my first holy communion :-)</div><div style="text-align: center;">AND get this: the Saint I chose, St. Gianna, I picked her because she sacrificed her life for that of her unborn child (and most saints were nuns and I find it harder to relate to them)... I've been reading her biography: she had homebirths for 3 of her 4 children IN THE '50s "it is good for children to be born at home within the family", she "nursed as long as her milk let her" and "I can't conceive of a mother slapping a child". :-D amazing. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">now just some new pictures.</div><div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-yZLNIUV9ERg/TaIcwcmvD3I/AAAAAAAAAPg/Qu6bkbyTTSU/s1600/IMG_1423.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-yZLNIUV9ERg/TaIcwcmvD3I/AAAAAAAAAPg/Qu6bkbyTTSU/s320/IMG_1423.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594065305785536370" /></a><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-w4ciap85Hyo/TaIcwPQ5atI/AAAAAAAAAPY/9qz0vs2o1ZU/s1600/IMG_1268.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-w4ciap85Hyo/TaIcwPQ5atI/AAAAAAAAAPY/9qz0vs2o1ZU/s320/IMG_1268.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594065302204279506" /></a> My baby will be 2 in just a little over a month! *tear* she's so big! some of her favorite phrases are "I do" when you ask her if she wants something, "oh no its stuck!", she loves pointing out Jesus "sheshus!". awww she is so precious to me. </div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-71985734320222090702011-04-02T14:02:00.002-05:002011-04-02T14:22:51.912-05:00New AAP car seat guidelines<a href="http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/168323_548903403074_205300915_32121173_2324582_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 720px; height: 480px;" src="http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/168323_548903403074_205300915_32121173_2324582_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(42, 42, 42); font-family:Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><span class="ecxApple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:Georgia, Times, serif;font-size:15px;"><div style="line-height: 19px; ">Yay! Keep 'em rear-facing to the height and weight limits of the seat or at least 2.</div><div style="line-height: 19px; "><a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/42186101/ns/today-today_news/">http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/42186101/ns/today-today_news/</a></div><div style="line-height: 19px; "> </div>"One-year-olds are five times less likely to be injured in a crash if they are in a rear-facing car seat than a forward-facing seat, according to a 2007 analysis of five years of U.S. crash data. </span><span class="ecxApple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:Georgia, Times, serif;font-size:15px;">Put another way, an estimated 1,000 children injured in forward-facing seats over 15 years might not have been hurt if they had been in a car seat facing the back, said Dr. Dennis Durbin, lead author of the recommendations and a pediatric emergency physician at Children's Hospital of Philadelphia."</span><div style="line-height: 17px; "><span class="ecxApple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:Georgia, Times, serif;font-size:15px;"> </span></div><div style="line-height: 17px; "><span class="ecxApple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family:Georgia, Times, serif;font-size:15px;"><span class="ecxApple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family:Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><p color="initial" style="line-height: 1.3; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border- padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; "><a href="http://thestir.cafemom.com/baby/117755/aaps_new_car_seat_guidelines">http://thestir.cafemom.com/baby/117755/aaps_new_car_seat_guidelines</a></p><p color="initial" style="line-height: 1.3; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border- padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; "> </p><p color="initial" style="line-height: 1.3; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border- padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; ">"It was believed that 1 year and 20 pounds was the benchmark for forward facing babies in car seats, despite evidence elsewhere that that was still dangerously early. Now, hopefully, with<strong style="line-height: 17px; font-weight: bold; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border- margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; color:initial;"> </strong>new guidelines, parents and doctors can get on board and spread the word about the safest practices for children. Here are the details.</p><p style="line-height: 1.3; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-color: initial; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; "><strong style="line-height: 17px; font-weight: bold; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border- margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; color:initial;"><span style="line-height: 17px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border- margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-decoration: underline; color:initial;">New Rear-Facing Recommendation</span>: </strong>Parents are to keep children rear-facing until<strong style="line-height: 17px; font-weight: bold; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-color: initial; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; "> 2 years old</strong>, or until they reach the maximum height and weight for the seat as noted in the manual. </p><p style="line-height: 1.3; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-bottom-style: none; border-left-style: none; border-color: initial; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; ">Safe Kids agrees. Two years is a goal easily met, considering even some of the lowest cost seats now rear-face until 40 pounds. When your baby outgrows their infant carrier, that is when you buy a convertible seat that rear faces longer, not a forward-facing seat."</p></span></span></div></span>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-74641141903058547832011-03-28T00:57:00.005-05:002011-04-02T00:54:46.017-05:00Potty & my dream dog!<div style="text-align: center;">17 months old </div><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yh6F8A2H9ik/TZAl-I1vkiI/AAAAAAAAAPI/bszgaVGn04s/s1600/IMG_3891.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yh6F8A2H9ik/TZAl-I1vkiI/AAAAAAAAAPI/bszgaVGn04s/s320/IMG_3891.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5589008887021802018" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">3 weeks old</div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-xQk9B8TCJW4/TZAlYFoClnI/AAAAAAAAAPA/9e5LmCjRBWc/s1600/IMG_0168.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-xQk9B8TCJW4/TZAlYFoClnI/AAAAAAAAAPA/9e5LmCjRBWc/s320/IMG_0168.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5589008233323992690" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><u><br /></u></span></div>hehe I just love that newborn picture! I'm really glad we decided to EC... even if it means its made being 100% potty trained harder - since she's been 50% potty trained her whole life, there isn't that excitement about getting a new potty or going in the potty... she's just "meh, old hat" about it. That position she's in in the newborn picture is still her preferred way of pottying.... <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">so I've been bribing with chocolate chips to get her to use her potty seat</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">And, since I have nothing to do on the internet anymore - I've been looking up dog breeds for like 2 days straight and found the perfect one for us - we have very limited choices because we need a very light to non-shedding dog and one that is good with small children and doesn't require tons of grooming (no poodles) and is easily trainable/good temperament, and I just like bigger dogs.... enter <a href="http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/bergamasco.htm">bergamasco</a>!! </span></div><a href="http://petsadviser.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Bergamasco.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 256px;" src="http://petsadviser.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Bergamasco.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Unfortunately it seems to be a very rare breed, there are only like 5 breeders in the U.S., one of which requires you to go to NY to pick up your pup so they can meet you and another isn't sure if she's even going to have another litter. Just my luck! I don't even want a puppy - at all! I want an adult dog that is already trained and spayed/neutered and already has all his puppy shots, etc, I have no desire for a puppy but seriously, finding an adult of this dog seems impossible (heck, finding a puppy seems impossible). *sigh* how adorable are those dreads?! ;-)</span></div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-75446675094986428042011-03-23T17:34:00.003-05:002011-03-23T18:01:29.238-05:00Florida?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" 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border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><div>There is a chance we could be moving to Florida in JUNE! Mike put in his BOP (base of preference) for Tyndall AFB (along with some other bases, so we could get one of those too but wouldn't be moving as soon or we could stay here for 2 more years) and they have an opening, but another guy he works with also put in for it... so we'll see! They should tell us in the next month. I've never even been to a real beach before! I kind of hope we get it, but I also sort of hope we don't because I like my friends here and I don't know how I feel about humidity anymore. So, I'll really be ok either way, but its kind of exciting to think about living on a beach in a state where you can buy raw milk labeled as pet food ;-) not to mention - SEA LEVEL! I hate high altitude baking! So, if we do get it - that is not even 3 months to move across the country! I'm trying not to obsess, I hate not knowing though!!! </div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-78287545877550908262011-03-12T23:03:00.004-06:002011-03-12T23:40:49.217-06:00no facebook!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Q7-5YD8eHhs/TXxTYzasNGI/AAAAAAAAAN0/id1PXyYrn6c/s1600/IMG_1125.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Q7-5YD8eHhs/TXxTYzasNGI/AAAAAAAAAN0/id1PXyYrn6c/s320/IMG_1125.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5583429323616695394" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">look at all those teeth!</span></i></div><div style="text-align: left;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></i></div>So, I gave up lent for facebook and feel totally cut off from the world now! hahahahaha I wrote gave up lent for facebook!! I don't even want to fix it because it is too hilarious! Anyway, I do spend less time on the computer, because there is nothing to do on here! I really need to make a to do list because I'm not getting anything else done by not being on the internet! http://40daysforlife.com/<div>Faith and I went to that on Friday. It was really nice and sad at the same time, I just felt sick standing outside of planned parenthood knowing what goes on. :( </div><div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YF9x3D1EX_0/TXxSloJzRgI/AAAAAAAAANs/zn_e0ty4xXM/s1600/IMG_1176.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YF9x3D1EX_0/TXxSloJzRgI/AAAAAAAAANs/zn_e0ty4xXM/s320/IMG_1176.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5583428444419737090" /></a><div>I made a slipcover for the kinderpack. pretty cute huh? It took me all of 10 minutes.. I made it out of an old sheet. sorry the picture isn't cropped, I'm too lazy to edit pictures. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-29203905225525268582011-02-28T01:00:00.006-06:002011-03-04T17:34:58.141-06:00Catholic Church<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium; "><i>Not 100 in the United States hate the Roman Catholic Church, but millions hate what they mistakenly think the Roman Catholic Church is.</i> -- Bishop Fulton J. Sheen</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium; "><br /></span></div>Yep, thats right folks. We've been going to Catholic Church. GASP! I know. Well, Mike and I were married in the Catholic Church and I was going to convert (though only because I wanted our family to go to church together) back when we first moved here, but Mike had a change of heart which I had been praying for. So we started going to our current, lovely, family integrated church right after that, about 2.5 years ago. We were growing increasingly frustrated with it though since I end up out in the hall for the entire service with Faith running around... so I started looking for a solution, of course there really isn't one, its just hard going to church with a little one. But I started looking into other local churches around here. We wanted something with young families and most of those churches don't have the kind of worship/formality we believe in. And, unless you go to a non-denom, how do you decide which denomination to go to? There are 33,000 (probably more, I don't know how old that number is) different denominations! I was raised Baptist, but who am I to say that those Presbyterian's baptizing infants are wrong when they use the SAME Bible to defend their beliefs too. So, how the heck can anyone decide which one is true when everyone is yelling "SOLA SCRIPTURA!"? I want to go to the Church that preaches the TRUTH! There can only be one truth, unless we're going to say, like some non-Christian worldviews say, that everyone has to find their own truth and my truth is different than yours, etc. So... maybe this sola scriptura thing isn't working out so well. Look at all the division, is that what Jesus intended? Plus, no one believed in using the Bible alone as the sole rule of faith until Martin Luther came along in 16th Century. Did they all get it wrong for 1500 years? Is Sola Scriptura even IN the Bible?! "all doctrine is inspired by God and profitable for reproof....." hmmmm. profitable. but I don't see where it says "the only thing profitable". And speaking of Martin Luther, did you know he wanted to remove a bunch of other books from the NT like James and Romans and Revelations. He even referred to James as the "epistle of straw" (maybe because it says faith without works is dead?;-). He also believed in the perpetual virginity of Mary and in the Real Presence of Christ in the mass (though to a slightly different extent). I was surprised! And there wasn't even an official Canon of Scripture for the New Testament until 300 something AD. 300 years! What did those people do?! Obviously they couldn't rely on the Bible alone to teach them what to believe, they were taught from oral tradition! You know what the Bible says is the pillar and foundation of truth? The church! (1 tim 3:15)<div><br /></div><div>Needless to say Michael was a little more than surprised when I told him I thought we should maybe go to Catholic Church again. He's very on-board though. He was going through a faith-crisis right before this and I could tell he was very relieved when I mentioned it.<br /><div><br /></div><div>Ok, well I'm not going to go into every single theological reason why, but another huge factor was that we already believe in the cultural aspects of Catholicism. We don't have to search for some fringe fundamentalist church to hear that contraception is wrong or that radical feminism is destroying families. They are actively against abortion. children are welcome & encouraged to be in the service with their parents. Many of the prominent breastfeeding, natural mothering, gentle discipline books are written by Catholics (Kippley, Popcak) - heck, LLL was started by 7 Catholic women. <a href="http://ewtn.edgeboss.net/download/ewtn/audiolibrary/gf_02262011.mp3">Sears' are Catholic too</a>. huge points for Catholicism in my book ;-)<div><br /></div><div>This was the first thing I listened to after I started reconsidering Catholicism - <a href="http://www.ewtn.com/vondemand/audio/seriessearchprog.asp?seriesID=6124">Household of Faith</a> its by two formerly Protestant women. sooo great and its free so you should listen to it!</div></div></div><div><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Rome-Sweet-Home-Journey-Catholicism/dp/0898704782/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1299190524&sr=8-1">A great book by a Presbyterian Minister & his wife on their journey converting to the Catholic Church</a></div><div><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Catholicism-Fundamentalism-Attack-Romanism-Christians/dp/0898701775/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1299236554&sr=8-1">An awesome defense against every anti-Catholic </a>argument</div><div>EW<a href="https://ewtn.com/vondemand/audio/file_index.asp?SeriesId=-6892289&pgnu=">TN audio from The Journey Home</a> - a show interviewing Protestant Pastor's that have converted to the CC</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; "><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia; font-size: medium; line-height: 14px; ">And yes there are Catholics who don't know squat about the Bible or what the Catholic Church teaches... but there are also Protestants who are the same way. The Catholic Church doesn't teach that we are saved by works or that we should worship Mary or that Mary is equal to Jesus or that everyone outside the CC is going to hell, or ... probably most everything you've heard isn't true. </span></div><div><br /></div><div>So... there you have it. I used to listen/read tons of anti-Catholic stuff, so don't throw that at me thinking I haven't seen it yet, I know all of the arguments. I even grew up in a Church where the Pastor was an ex-Catholic! I've really been putting off telling people because I'm so afraid of what people will say/think/ask and I'm a total conflict avoider in real life because I'm so so so bad at thinking on my feet. I know a few of you are very anti-Catholic so just be gentle and read some things from a Catholic perspective instead of only anti-Catholic. "<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">There is no meaner, more hateful person on earth than a Christian who suspects you have gotten your theology wrong." </span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Ok, well... I'm really excited about it! I'll be received into the Catholic Church at Pentecost. I'm in a conversion class full of other adults with protestant backgrounds, its been so encouraging to be able to fellowship and discuss with others in the same boat. We have a reconciliation retreat tomorrow.... yay!!</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Please don't hate me. I'm so scared to post this! ahhhhhh :-|</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-87761865524036193192011-02-27T14:37:00.002-06:002011-02-27T14:52:10.471-06:00Church!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.destination360.com/north-america/canada/images/s/notre-dame-basilica.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 415px; height: 332px;" src="http://www.destination360.com/north-america/canada/images/s/notre-dame-basilica.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><div>Faith and I went to church alone today (not this church, just a pretty picture I found)! First time thats ever happened, only because Mike worked last night and obviously wasn't going to get up 2 hours after he got home to go to Church and I just felt like going :) I almost didn't go, because I must be insane to try taking her by myself!! But, she sat through the entire service!!!! I can't even believe it! Granted, it was only an hour but I didn't have to take her out at all. well, once because she said she needed to go potty, which is also a HUGE deal because she hardly ever tells me before she goes. and she kept asking for food (of course I brought none) and nursed like 5 times and wanted this girl's baby doll in front of us. But she was pretty good! I haven't been able to sit through an entire service since she was like 3 months old. I still got nothing out of it because I was trying to occupy her the whole time, but its progress!</div><div> I'll say more about WHERE we went to church later, but I'd like to save the reprimands and concerns for my soul for another day ;-)</div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-24842430164724676902011-02-18T01:38:00.004-06:002011-02-18T02:02:15.120-06:00Sick baby<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--19LrV7Vcvk/TV4jbw4TRqI/AAAAAAAAANk/ibcoPGpvTQg/s1600/IMG_1014.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--19LrV7Vcvk/TV4jbw4TRqI/AAAAAAAAANk/ibcoPGpvTQg/s320/IMG_1014.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574932348615739042" /></a>lots of puking :( Thankfully I think its over now.<div><br /></div><div>Edit: not over. As soon as I posted this, she started fussing in her sleep on the couch so I was going to move her upstairs to our bed and go to sleep myself. I take her up there, I had already pre-planned so I had everything ready and certain lights on that needed to be on, I go up there (meanwhile she is gagging on the way up the stairs) and none of the lights are on, none of the light switches work (keep in mind Mike is working nights this month so he's not here). So, she threw up on the floor/me 3 times in the span of 30 seconds while I'm helpless because I can't see anything! AHHHH I'm not even going to try to clean it up since there is no light and its scary up there! Vomit on carpet for 8 hours will be fine right? Why does electricity not work in half my house?! </div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-54439859779068114392010-12-22T16:35:00.008-06:002010-12-22T18:10:38.083-06:00I haven't blogged since August!!!<div>That is crazy! Faith doesn't let me be on the computer much lately, which is actually a good thing - I spend way less time on facebook :-). My laptop is in the kitchen and, unless she is really distracted, she will push at my legs until I get off. And, I have been knitting up a storm for Christmas - I knitted a scarf for everyone in my family in 3 weeks.... ok not a real scarf, just a neckwarmer... but thats 4 neck warmers in barely 3 weeks. And I can't really knit when Faith is awake - so I had to use my only free time during naps and after she went to sleep at night. blech! So glad thats over with. </div><div><br /></div><div>Faith is 19 months old!! She says about 20 words and she's pretty much potty trained now. At 17 months, after hearing one of my friends with a baby the same age as Faith who didn't do <a href="http://diaperfreebaby.org/">EC</a> talk about starting potty training I was like WHAT? Maybe I should get on the ball here! haha We hadn't been doing much EC, just first thing in the morning and after her nap, and she was wearing cloth diapers throughout the day and would tell us when she peed her in diaper. So I just started putting panties on her and reading her a book on the potty and she took to it immediately! Most of the time we'll go a few days without having a miss and she was telling us when she needed to go, but she's teething now so its kind of iffy but if I remember to take her fairly often she'll hold it. We still do diapers out of the house because it makes me nervous not to, but she stays dry almost all the time anyway. </div><div><br /></div><div>Oh!!! AND (tmi?) I think I've finally got my period back. yay? Faith still nurses a lot and all night long, but she is starting to eat more solids... somedays lol. </div><div><br /></div><div>My family came a few days ago and they brought our Christmas presents :) so here are some pictures in no particular order because blogger uploads them in reverse.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">a hammock! Its in our bedroom - its so fun and comfy. Oh and her waldorf doll is with her too</div><div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKHc3c11aI/AAAAAAAAANU/JRGZyoSUiJE/s1600/IMG_0394.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKHc3c11aI/AAAAAAAAANU/JRGZyoSUiJE/s320/IMG_0394.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553650220492248482" /></a><br /><div><div style="text-align: center;">my safely rear-facing 19 month old :)</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKHclzhELI/AAAAAAAAANM/S1ndMlDDdh0/s1600/IMG_0387.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKHclzhELI/AAAAAAAAANM/S1ndMlDDdh0/s320/IMG_0387.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553650215755518130" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">reading with Grandpa</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKHcVsTJfI/AAAAAAAAANE/NZY25zaz0tE/s1600/IMG_0383.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKHcVsTJfI/AAAAAAAAANE/NZY25zaz0tE/s320/IMG_0383.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553650211430278642" /></a></div><div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><u><br /></u></span></div><div style="text-align: center;">with Aunt Michelle and Aunt Emily</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKGXGMtLmI/AAAAAAAAAM0/2Wn91O9M0FQ/s1600/IMG_0319.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKGXGMtLmI/AAAAAAAAAM0/2Wn91O9M0FQ/s320/IMG_0319.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553649021860261474" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Grandma</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKGW7Sn1vI/AAAAAAAAAMs/FyCRe5sPqpM/s1600/IMG_0316.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKGW7Sn1vI/AAAAAAAAAMs/FyCRe5sPqpM/s320/IMG_0316.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553649018932287218" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKGWll-_PI/AAAAAAAAAMk/yUXeILjEE0I/s1600/IMG_0304.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKGWll-_PI/AAAAAAAAAMk/yUXeILjEE0I/s320/IMG_0304.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553649013107916018" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">a rough day of teething/sickness. Oh our tv is new too! Faith can't turn it off and on anymore because we mounted it on the wall! YAY!</div><img src="http://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif" alt="Add Image" border="0" class="gl_photo" /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKD__LbGTI/AAAAAAAAAMc/gXf68rdMrqY/s1600/IMG_0269.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKD__LbGTI/AAAAAAAAAMc/gXf68rdMrqY/s320/IMG_0269.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553646425815587122" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">I got an awesome new camera for my birthday! (I'm 23 now! crazy!) I've never had a dSLR before and I'm love love loving it!!! I also bought this awesome kinderpack, its toddler size... ssssooooo great (we haven't been the thriftiest in the last month if you couldn't tell lol!)!! She fell asleep with Gerber's eye in her mouth. Anyone else watch Gerber as a child?</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKD_oIWdPI/AAAAAAAAAMU/hpqqSlRKMAY/s1600/IMG_0264.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKD_oIWdPI/AAAAAAAAAMU/hpqqSlRKMAY/s320/IMG_0264.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553646419628684530" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKD_eOeXXI/AAAAAAAAAMM/UlJBprkYQ90/s1600/IMG_0253.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKD_eOeXXI/AAAAAAAAAMM/UlJBprkYQ90/s320/IMG_0253.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553646416970014066" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKC2aGBHpI/AAAAAAAAAME/8lsoHFvlvHI/s1600/IMG_0198.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKC2aGBHpI/AAAAAAAAAME/8lsoHFvlvHI/s320/IMG_0198.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553645161730350738" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKC2IGu02I/AAAAAAAAAL8/u7tAucDwW0M/s1600/IMG_0184.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKC2IGu02I/AAAAAAAAAL8/u7tAucDwW0M/s320/IMG_0184.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553645156901507938" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">We love to go on walks... except not so much when its freezing.</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKC158-MOI/AAAAAAAAAL0/TdnIrQzimBs/s1600/IMG_0137.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKC158-MOI/AAAAAAAAAL0/TdnIrQzimBs/s320/IMG_0137.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5553645153102475490" /></a><div style="text-align: left;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TRKC1kCpmnI/AAAAAAAAALs/4WmNRKUQ1I8/s1600/IMG_0100.JPG"><br /></a></div><div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#0000EE;"><u><br /></u></span></div><br /></div></div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-35702508597048266742010-08-31T17:40:00.019-05:002010-08-31T18:35:38.932-05:00Picture Post: 15 months old, Wrap Rant, and some DIY<div style="text-align: center;">First off- I highly recommend woven wraps... they are amazing and 100% worth every penny. You can use them from birth to... whenever. There are a ton of different carries you can learn: front, back, hip, nursing- its endless! And, unlike stretchy wraps - they are still super supportive far far far past 15lbs. They have a steep learning curve, but its worth it! I started wrapping when Faith was 5 months old and outgrew the sleepy wrap. Anyway, on with the show! This is Anna she is made by Storchenwiege and this is how we used her today...</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">...For a 3 hour nap. She is still sleeping actually and I'm very comfortable. This is in a <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ijL_SKH8MlY">reinforced rucksack carry</a> which I just tried today and I love it. Faith doesn't nurse to sleep very often anymore, but she likes to be wrapped to sleep, sometimes I take her off after she falls asleep, sometimes not. </div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2IIK0m3cI/AAAAAAAAALQ/-6E4bOeKOkk/s1600/IMG_3463.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2IIK0m3cI/AAAAAAAAALQ/-6E4bOeKOkk/s320/IMG_3463.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511711192896691650" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">as a hammock</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2IBtbNNGI/AAAAAAAAALI/1B1zNJMLTrg/s1600/IMG_3462.JPG"></a><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2IBtbNNGI/AAAAAAAAALI/1B1zNJMLTrg/s1600/IMG_3462.JPG"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2IBtbNNGI/AAAAAAAAALI/1B1zNJMLTrg/s320/IMG_3462.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511711081926308962" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">She loved it!</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2H4u3VIHI/AAAAAAAAALA/pxdVPW-xFJ0/s1600/IMG_3460.JPG"></a></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2H4u3VIHI/AAAAAAAAALA/pxdVPW-xFJ0/s1600/IMG_3460.JPG"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2H4u3VIHI/AAAAAAAAALA/pxdVPW-xFJ0/s320/IMG_3460.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511710927693881458" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">I left her alone with this book for 5 minutes and she ate the entire corner off... she was suspiciously quiet, no wonder. </div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HvY9qdlI/AAAAAAAAAK4/aQqsTYOHoRA/s1600/IMG_3451.JPG"></a></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HvY9qdlI/AAAAAAAAAK4/aQqsTYOHoRA/s1600/IMG_3451.JPG"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HvY9qdlI/AAAAAAAAAK4/aQqsTYOHoRA/s320/IMG_3451.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511710767196042834" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">She loves to put our shoes on. :-D</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HpEeC-qI/AAAAAAAAAKw/vNASbImFinM/s1600/IMG_3448.JPG"></a></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HpEeC-qI/AAAAAAAAAKw/vNASbImFinM/s1600/IMG_3448.JPG"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HpEeC-qI/AAAAAAAAAKw/vNASbImFinM/s320/IMG_3448.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511710658615507618" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">Mmmm meatballs</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HcDr0fnI/AAAAAAAAAKo/ncY3XqQfZmY/s1600/IMG_3436.JPG"></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HVtq0ZbI/AAAAAAAAAKg/PRjK8yBUVf8/s1600/IMG_3435.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HVtq0ZbI/AAAAAAAAAKg/PRjK8yBUVf8/s320/IMG_3435.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511710326077547954" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">Isn't this so cute?! She is smelling my wilted basil plant!</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HOxWQBiI/AAAAAAAAAKY/UxH8jYeJzmM/s1600/IMG_3418.JPG"></a></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HOxWQBiI/AAAAAAAAAKY/UxH8jYeJzmM/s1600/IMG_3418.JPG"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HOxWQBiI/AAAAAAAAAKY/UxH8jYeJzmM/s320/IMG_3418.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511710206805935650" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">Family picture via self-timer. haha. use your mind to crop out Mike's feet. Faith is nursing, isn't she giant?</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HASyUC6I/AAAAAAAAAKQ/fa--LXCTe34/s1600/IMG_3415.JPG"></a></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HASyUC6I/AAAAAAAAAKQ/fa--LXCTe34/s1600/IMG_3415.JPG"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2HASyUC6I/AAAAAAAAAKQ/fa--LXCTe34/s320/IMG_3415.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511709958083972002" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">DIY shape sorter. We're only sorting one shape obviously, and she still just tries to shove it through. I think circles would have been the smarter option...</div><div style="text-align: center;">tape a cardboard box closed, cut shapes out of the top, make a hole in the side to retrieve "shapes", cover sides of openings using duct tape to make the edges not so sharp, use glue gun or fabric glue to attach scrap fabric to box. Viola!</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2G6DtyL_I/AAAAAAAAAKI/kifF3K8dZhU/s1600/IMG_3393.JPG"></a></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2G6DtyL_I/AAAAAAAAAKI/kifF3K8dZhU/s1600/IMG_3393.JPG"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2G6DtyL_I/AAAAAAAAAKI/kifF3K8dZhU/s320/IMG_3393.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511709850959228914" /></a><br /></div><div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2GzRpRP0I/AAAAAAAAAKA/9KZZztpEp0w/s1600/IMG_3381.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2GzRpRP0I/AAAAAAAAAKA/9KZZztpEp0w/s320/IMG_3381.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511709734439305026" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2FyJB31hI/AAAAAAAAAJA/v7Fs5oOsju4/s1600/IMG_3366.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2FyJB31hI/AAAAAAAAAJA/v7Fs5oOsju4/s320/IMG_3366.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511708615435081234" /></a><br /></div><div><div style="text-align: center;">DIY Babywearing sweater! </div><div style="text-align: center;">You need a stretchy knit sweater with zipper (buttons would work too)... hold on, I have to tell you about this sweater. It's from Anthropology and I found it at Goodwill with the $90 price tag still attached!!! LOVE! Ok, so baby on your back, put it on backwards and have someone zip you up! HAHAHA. Don't worry, I only go on walks after dark like this...</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2FxTKrg7I/AAAAAAAAAI4/m4jMCJ4ymHA/s1600/IMG_3353.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2FxTKrg7I/AAAAAAAAAI4/m4jMCJ4ymHA/s320/IMG_3353.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511708600976507826" /></a><br /></div><div><div style="text-align: center;">She is 15 months old now. Weighs 22 lbs (she weighed like 20lbs at 7 months so she has really slowed down the weight gain) and is 31" tall. She says ball, dog, mama, dada, down (I think), and no. She LOVES going to the play area at the mall, you know, the germ infested place you swore you would never allow your child to play at before you had kids (no? just me then?). We have to wait until after 8pm to go because its less crowded then and she really likes to climb up/slide down this one slide over and over again. Its fun to watch.</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2Fw2simiI/AAAAAAAAAIw/IM9YDS1gsv0/s1600/IMG_3349.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2Fw2simiI/AAAAAAAAAIw/IM9YDS1gsv0/s320/IMG_3349.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511708593333901858" /></a><br /></div><div><div style="text-align: center;">This is our new house :). Having our stuff split between the two levels is hard... I'm still getting used to it and trying to figure out how to make it practical. ugh. I like the space though, a lot!</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2FNswxwYI/AAAAAAAAAIo/LvoHqtiBcvk/s1600/IMG_3293.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TH2FNswxwYI/AAAAAAAAAIo/LvoHqtiBcvk/s320/IMG_3293.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511707989371896194" /></a>the end.</div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-42296451121447316122010-08-02T00:26:00.003-05:002010-08-02T01:03:14.826-05:00Church NurseriesToday we visited a different church. One with a nursery. It wasn't like a real church nursery, no one demanded I hand my baby over or assigned security bracelets or parent pagers... just a room with toys and an adult assigned to help in it. I thought maybe it would be good, I would get to listen to the sermon finally, Faith would play. Great. <div><br /></div><div>Well, maybe I should start with the fact that I haven't really sat in church for a year. I sit out in the hall with Faith, since our normal church doesn't have a nursery. I liked this fact for a while, but now that she is getting older and just wants to play - I see their purpose. I've also only left her in the care of others once. I had a dentist appointment and was gone for 2 hours when she was 5 months old.... bad bad bad decision she was one very sad baby when I got back and didn't stop crying for 30 more minutes! Mike takes off work for my dentist appointments now ;-)</div><div><br /></div><div>So, we try out this other church. I go sit back in the nursery with her for 20 minutes, she is playing and interested in toys so I sneak out - back in to the service. But all I can think about is what she is doing back there... is she sad? Does she miss me? Does she know I'm gone? Is she playing with the balls? What are the adults doing in there? Did they do background checks? I might as well be back there with her, because I'm getting nothing from being out here! So after 4 minutes I hear crying. I go back there and sure enough- crying hysterically, splotchy face, hyperventilating... that's my daughter! AHHHH so sad. So... all this to say, I won't be leaving Faith in a nursery again and I'm glad to know that I'm not missing out on anything by our church not having one. </div><div><br /></div><div>Off-topic: what would you say to someone who asks you when you're going to have another baby when you want one right now but you haven't ovulated in 2 years? haha, pretty specific, right? I should say something like "In God's timing" but I usually say "whenever" to stop myself from saying "ask my ovaries %*#(@!!" UGH I just hate getting that question!</div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-87833009097128708382010-07-11T00:04:00.000-05:002010-07-11T00:04:33.139-05:00BoBB<div>The Business of Being Born is a great documentary on birth and the state of maternity care in America. If you plan on maybe, possibly, ever being a Mother or Father you need to watch this movie. And its free... so just do it. In fact, I'll just post the first part here for your convenience. Who knows how long this will be available on youtube, but you can watch it as an instant on netflix if you are so privileged. </div><div><br /></div><object style="background-image:url(http://i3.ytimg.com/vi/FdsHkZPdSYQ/hqdefault.jpg)" width="480" height="295"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/FdsHkZPdSYQ&hl=en_US&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/FdsHkZPdSYQ&hl=en_US&fs=1" width="480" height="295" allowscriptaccess="never" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></object>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-38171651451955853412010-06-30T15:19:00.004-05:002010-07-03T18:44:20.936-05:00I miss blogging<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TCunC5RrcsI/AAAAAAAAAIQ/A5AhtknQ2Bo/s1600/IMG_3014.JPG"><img style="text-align: left;float: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px; " src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TCunC5RrcsI/AAAAAAAAAIQ/A5AhtknQ2Bo/s320/IMG_3014.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488664239057629890" /></a><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div>I haven't been on here in a few weeks. We made it home from Pennsylvania.... eventfully to say the least. Our car overheated on the way there, we barely made it there in time after getting completely drenched in a freak, 5 minute, thunder storm while switching our bags from one car to the other. We were almost charged a seat for Faith since we didn't have her birth certificate (what is up with southwest? They are the only ones to ask for this! Then they said that I should have faxed it to myself while I was on my trip... what?!). Then security has to throw away my new natural, etsy sunscreen because I forgot it was in my purse. We sit on the runway for an hour because of weather while the guy behind us is saying "da plane boss da plane" to his 3 year old over and over again. Faith fell asleep mid-flight, about 30min into her nap she starts crying unconsolably in her sleep and vomits all over me. <div><br /></div><div>I hate New York now. Not fun with a baby in the summer at all. Its too hot to wear her and too difficult to use the stroller with the subway, so we did a bit of both. On the 5 hour drive back from new york Faith was hysterically crying a good portion of the time. I never know what to do when she is like that... I tried nursing her in her carseat, distracting her, nothing. She just wanted OUT. I'd let her out for a few minutes and put her back in, which only made it worse. I just kept thinking... would you rather have a dead baby or a sad baby? I confess, let her out... I know, bad, very bad, mommy. But, we still had over an hour to drive and she was way too upset to fall asleep, even after I let her out she cried for a good 20 minutes after because she was ssoooo scared. Poor girl, thanks Jesus for keeping her safe.</div><div><br /></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TCuuxQWKFTI/AAAAAAAAAIY/-hgsVVgWHP4/s1600/IMG_3028.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/TCuuxQWKFTI/AAAAAAAAAIY/-hgsVVgWHP4/s320/IMG_3028.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488672732105807154" /></a>We got a poodle puppy! Then Michael decided he didn't like dogs after all, so we gave him back after a week. It was bitter sweet because... I don't know why anyone ever gets a puppy. It was SO hard with puppy & Faith. oh my. I'm very relieved, but kind of sad at the same time. I really had no time to do anything at all! It was miserable, now my plants are dying because I forgot to water them for 5 days in a row. I'm sure it would have changed once he wasn't a puppy anymore... but that could last 2 years! I really just wish we could go get a shelter dog, but we can't handle shedding and Michael is allergic to some dogs it seems. And I'm definitely not getting another dog until Faith is like 6... and I'll have 10 kids by then, so they can all take care of it. hahaha jk (about the 10 kids part)</div><div><br /></div><div>We are moving! Did I tell you that? Michael's supervisor is leaving and we can take his house! Its two stories with carpet and a fenced yard. 3bedroom, 2.5baths, more open floor plan so the kitchen isn't secluded in a little hallway (which I HATE about this house). Its about the same size as our house now, except more living space because right now - half our house is the basement which I don't like. I LOVE moving! Organizing, planning, arranging. AHHH I could do it once a year for the rest of my life. lol This will be our 3rd house in 2.5 years on the same base (the other move wasn't by choice though).</div><div><br /></div><div>My family is coming to visit in a week! They haven't been here since last summer when Faith was 1 month old (we have visited them since then, though). That will be fun, pretty sure my sisters hate me now that we don't have a puppy though.</div><div><br /></div><div>Michael made "Below the Zone". So, he gets to rank up 6 months sooner than expected - so its basically like winning $800! Woo!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-70500147348627992112010-06-11T14:54:00.003-05:002010-06-11T15:30:03.644-05:00"Vacation"We are on "Vacation" right now... whatever that means after you have a child. It is SO exhausting chasing a one year old around a non-baby proof house. There are 7 other people here and they of course offer to follow her around, but you know, they get distracted or something and next thing you know she is putting a whole grape in her mouth or trying to climb up the stairs in the blink of an eye. Not to mention- I HATE old houses that have no carpeting and creaky floors. Seriously, could the sound travel any better? If people are talking downstairs it sounds like they are right out in the hall. Needless to say- Faith is having a hard time napping/falling asleep and I'm having a hard time not being mad at everything. hmmmm 11 more days. I am looking forward to seeing some of Mike's family that we haven't seen in 3 years and his parents live in the town where we met, so its fun being back here and going back to all the places we would hang out at. Its the cutest little town ever, with a ton of family owned businesses and row houses. ahhh, adorable. And we are going to NYC tomorrow-Sunday so that will be fun and hopefully not too hot. I'm not even going to bring the stroller because subway = not handicap accessible.. meaning lots of stairs. And its crowded! (we have been using the stroller more because it is HOT to have a baby on your back in the summer)<div><br /></div><div>And... everyone and there dog is pregnant and I'm not and I wish I was but I'm not even fertile yet (no signs of it at least). My heart aches every time I see a newborn... so I just try to remind myself how many people struggle with true infertility (not breastfeeding induced infertility lol). I guess I'm just freaked out now that I will never be able to get pregnant while breastfeeding and Faith will be 4 by the time we have another baby. lol. Yet just a few months ago I was freaked out I would get pregnant too soon. I SO do not trust God... :( its always something I'm worried about. Not even worried, I just WANT! Maybe if Faith is a little older though, I'll be able to tandem nurse and she won't wean during my pregnancy! fun! God knows what He's doing.... my body knows what its doing. words to remember. I have been having a ton of dreams lately like when I was pregnant. hmmm</div><div><br /></div><div>sorry to be such a complainer...</div>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-20066695096001854652010-05-30T00:14:00.003-05:002010-05-30T00:49:43.373-05:00Growing Kids GODS Way? Are you sure?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 13px; "><p style="text-indent: 0in !important; margin-top: 0em !important; margin-right: 0em !important; margin-bottom: 0em !important; margin-left: 0em !important; padding-top: 0em !important; padding-right: 0em !important; padding-bottom: 0em !important; padding-left: 0em !important; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 10pt; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; ">a couple highlights from this very indepth <a href="http://www.equip.org/articles/the-cultic-characteristics-of-growing-families-international">article on the Cultic Characteristics of Growing Families International/Ezzos</a>. I strongly encourage reading the whole article if you are involved/interested in this "ministry"/program. And now, from the people that brought you Babywise! </span></span></span></p><p style="text-indent: 0in !important; margin-top: 0em !important; margin-right: 0em !important; margin-bottom: 0em !important; margin-left: 0em !important; padding-top: 0em !important; padding-right: 0em !important; padding-bottom: 0em !important; padding-left: 0em !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-indent: 0in !important; margin-top: 0em !important; margin-right: 0em !important; margin-bottom: 0em !important; margin-left: 0em !important; padding-top: 0em !important; padding-right: 0em !important; padding-bottom: 0em !important; padding-left: 0em !important; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 10pt; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; "></span></span></span></p><blockquote><p style="text-indent: 0in !important; margin-top: 0em !important; margin-right: 0em !important; margin-bottom: 0em !important; margin-left: 0em !important; padding-top: 0em !important; padding-right: 0em !important; padding-bottom: 0em !important; padding-left: 0em !important; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 10pt; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva; "><span style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; ">Note that the indispensable and exclusive role of the blood of Christ in removing the guilt of sin (<a href="http://bible.logos.com/passage/nkjv/Heb.%209.14" class="lbsBibleRef" target="_blank" style="text-indent: 0in !important; color: blue; text-decoration: none; ">Heb. 9:14</a>, <a href="http://bible.logos.com/passage/nkjv/Heb%209.22" class="lbsBibleRef" target="_blank" style="text-indent: 0in !important; color: blue; text-decoration: none; ">22</a>; <a href="http://bible.logos.com/passage/nkjv/1%20John%201.7" class="lbsBibleRef" target="_blank" style="text-indent: 0in !important; color: blue; text-decoration: none; ">1 John 1:7</a>) is not mentioned. Neither are parents instructed to teach their children that their guilty consciences can be absolved only by accepting Jesus as their Savior and then regularly confessing their sins to God (<a href="http://bible.logos.com/passage/nkjv/1%20John%201.9" class="lbsBibleRef" target="_blank" style="text-indent: 0in !important; color: blue; text-decoration: none; ">1 John 1:9</a>). Surely the Ezzos do not believe chastisement is the price paid to remove the guilt of a child’s sin<em style="text-indent: 0in !important; "> in the sight of God</em>. It seems more than coincidental, however, that they failed to qualify such a potentially misleading assertion.</span></span></span></p><p style="text-indent: 0in !important; margin-top: 0em !important; margin-right: 0em !important; margin-bottom: 0em !important; margin-left: 0em !important; padding-top: 0em !important; padding-right: 0em !important; padding-bottom: 0em !important; padding-left: 0em !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 10pt; "><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-indent: 0in !important; margin-top: 0em !important; margin-right: 0em !important; margin-bottom: 0em !important; margin-left: 0em !important; padding-top: 0em !important; padding-right: 0em !important; padding-bottom: 0em !important; padding-left: 0em !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;"><br /></span></p><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; ">"repeatedly cited <a href="http://bible.logos.com/passage/nkjv/Matthew%2027.46" class="lbsBibleRef" target="_blank" style="text-indent: 0in !important; color: blue; text-decoration: none; ">Matthew 27:46</a> — ‘…My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?’ — in support of their teaching that mothers should refuse to attend crying infants who have already been fed, changed, and had their basic needs met. ‘Praise God,’ writes Gary Ezzo on page 122 of<em style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">Preparation for Parenting</em>, ‘that the Father did not intervene when His son cried out on the cross.’ We see no way to make such an application of this verse without completely disregarding its original context and purpose."<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">30<span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; "> they teach that maternal instinct is an unbiblical concept and therefore imply mothers should ignore any intuitive alarms they may hear when following the GFI program (e.g., to pick up their crying babies when the program would tell them to let the babies cry).</span></sup></span></span></div><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 11px; "><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; ">While GFI takes Scripture out of context to prove that some of its teachings are from God, it does not shy away from according a similar divine status to other teachings that clearly have no biblical support whatsoever. On the one hand, GFI materials acknowledge that "God is silent on the topic of infant feeding"<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">38</sup> and that "the Bible is not specific" on how to "produce a morally responsible child."<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">39</sup> On the other hand, their infant care book is subtitled "<em style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">God’s</em> Order for your Baby’s Day" and their child-rearing book is titled "Growing Kids <em style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">God’s</em> Way." Contrary views — even those advanced by Christians — are labeled non-Christian.<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">40</sup> The overriding tone of the books is dogmatic and authoritative. They are full of feeding, sleeping, and playtime schedules and rules and "non-negotiable mandates"<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">41</sup> for parents to follow. Issues that the Bible is silent on and that Christians generally consider matters of convenience or personal or cultural preference become matters of Christian morality: how well a child sleeps is discussed in terms of the parents’ spirituality;<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">42</sup> directing a pretoddler’s behavior in the high chair is called "moral training";<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">43</sup> an appendix in <em style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">Growing Kids</em> <em style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">God’s</em> <em style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">Way</em> teaches that a child’s behavior at the table is "an extension of Christian character."<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">44</sup></span></span></div><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 11px; "><br /></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; "><p><span style="font-size: 10pt; "><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', geneva; "><span style="font-size: small; ">the Ezzos have said there is "no basis"<sup>49</sup> for the concerns and have dismissed them as "unsubstantiated hearsay."<sup>50</sup> The infant program they developed warns parents of the dangers of demand feeding,<sup>51</sup> the infant feeding practice strongly recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics.<sup>52</sup> GFI describes the research supporting putting infants to sleep on their backs as "not conclusive, and the method of gathering supportive data questionable"<sup>53</sup> — despite the fact there has been no less than a 30 percent drop in the number of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) deaths in the United States since the "Back to Sleep" campaign began.<sup>54</sup></span></span></span></p></span><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 11px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; ">The Ezzos describe themselves as "professionals"<sup>55</sup> and have said they are replacing others as the "authority" on child-rearing<strong>.</strong><sup>56<strong> </strong></sup>Yet they lack much of the background experience and education found in many of the very critics they are dismissing.<sup>57</sup> They have claimed to have a "network" of "hundreds of pediatricians" who provide them with "expert medical advice,"<sup>58</sup> but they have refused to provide the list when asked.<sup>59</sup> There is not one Internationally Board Certified Lactation Consultant on staff, though the materials give explicit breast-feeding instruction. These paradoxes may exist partly because of the Ezzos’ apparent lack of any true accountability to either church elders or a board of directors<sup>60</sup> and also because they actively discourage questioning both inside and outside the GFI system.</span></span></span></div><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 11px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; "> the book also instructs that even a <em style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">two-week-old </em>baby who falls asleep during the middle of a feeding and wakes up hungry two hours later should not be fed: "Babies learn very quickly the laws of natural consequences. If he does not eat at one feeding, then make him wait until the next one….Do not feed him between routine mealtimes."<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">101</sup> Lactation experts disagree. Pediatrician Marianne Neifert, author of the "Dr. Mom" parenting books, says, "Some babies…could handle the schedule. But a small baby with a mother who’s got a marginal milk supply.…Those babies could be put in jeopardy on a schedule."<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">102</sup> Lactation experts cite research explaining why such a schedule works for some babies, but not for others.<sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; ">103</sup></span></span></span></div></blockquote><div style="text-indent: 0in !important; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-family:'trebuchet ms', geneva;font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: 11px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-indent: 0in !important; font-size: small; "><sup style="text-indent: 0in !important; "></sup></span></span></span></div></span>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1650750492763913413.post-46761842821305140702010-05-09T12:27:00.004-05:002010-05-09T13:52:12.178-05:00Things I would do differently... at Faith's birth that I never thought of.<div><br /></div><div>Ask what my care provider does in cases of emergency (hemorrhaging, shoulder dystocia, etc). I of course asked all the usual - csection rates, episiotomy, induction, cord around neck etc etc. But I neglected to ask about certain things that might come up during labor and it kind of bit me in the butt as I wasn't thrilled with the way a couple things were handled. </div><div><br /></div><div>Insist on skin to skin for a longer period of time. Sure, we had like 20 or 30 minutes before she was weighed & measured and swaddled (and we probably only had that since I was totally naked, otherwise I would have had a gown on). But, after my SIL had issues with her newest baby not latching at all and after doing some research for her- turns out skin to skin is MIGHTY important for breastfeeding. </div><div><br /></div><div>Don't shower at the hospital... worst shower of my life.</div><div><br /></div><div>Have someone take pictures... we have no labor pictures and I'm so sad. </div><div><br /></div><div>I might not take evening primrose oil, even though I think it did help in some aspects- my sister said it could cause hemorrhaging. </div><div><br /></div><div>Insist on delivering placenta while cord still intact - I wasn't really clear on this and decided to just have a see what happens attitude, and since I was hemorrhaging they cut it early... they did ask me first though. But who is thinking clearly the second after your baby is born? </div><div><br /></div><div>I don't think we will find out the sex next time. yay! </div><div><br /></div><div>Overall I was VERY pleased with my hospital experience. The nurse I had was great and never once asked me if I wanted pain meds. And my midwife was there with me the whole time. Everyone was very chill (except when her shoulders got stuck). After she was born they pretty much left us alone (except one nurse kept telling me I wanted tylenol... I didn't - I wasn't in pain. No wonder though, they charge $3/pill!). I really reallly loved the "room service" and not having to cook or do dishes or rely on the kindness of others to bring us a hot meal. In fact- thats one of my motivating factors to go back next time lol. And I've heard the other midwife that also delivers there does "under the table waterbirths"- you aren't supposed to, but she says she won't force you out of the tub lol. And my MW was totally fine with delivering Faith on the toilet lol (never did because I found a more comfortable position, though it wasn't the best for gravity or stuck shoulders). No one pressured us to do any routine newborn things (baths, eye ointment, hepb, etc). I did feel pressure for the vit.k since she had some bruising but we just had to sign something for it.</div><div><br /></div><div>But, what about next time? Then what will we do with Faith? I don't think they allow young siblings at birth in the hospital. There is a free standing birth center an hour away that our insurance pays for... but an hour away. And homebirth of course would always be my first choice but free or $2000... free... $2000? Its not even that we can't afford $2000... but its FREE at the hospital. Our insurance does pay for homebirth with a CNM but all the ones here are CPM or RM. I did call someone who said our insurance covered her fees, but only because they had her listed as CNM (she was a cpm) and they have a database online of their "preferred providers" she said that she wasn't listed on that for some strange reason and she required payment up front and she would reimburse you when/if the insurance paid her (which is standard). Shady much?</div><div><br /></div><div>Can't I just pay a midwife like $200 to show up last minute in case anything goes awry... not even to deliver the baby- Michael could do that. lol ;-) </div><div><br /></div><div>I don't even know why I'm blogging about this. Looking forward to next time I suppose. Michael has been saying Faith needs a baby brother/sister for about 8 months now lol. Still no period though woooohoo 21 months so far.</div><div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/S-cEBQb4RLI/AAAAAAAAAII/azTySICqOTE/s1600/SD532570.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/S-cEBQb4RLI/AAAAAAAAAII/azTySICqOTE/s320/SD532570.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5469344692103038130" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/S-cEAgrOMxI/AAAAAAAAAIA/_3BLhZnLPzU/s1600/SD532576.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCad_OmmNu4/S-cEAgrOMxI/AAAAAAAAAIA/_3BLhZnLPzU/s320/SD532576.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5469344679282488082" /></a>The Whiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00642067527300257924noreply@blogger.com4